May 11, 2026

**Do Not Use**

CARE GIVER

By Barbara Robinson

The leaves are turning once more, as they will, again and again.  Oops there goes another one in a hurley burley dance toward the ground. When I was young, I would try and catch them, these early fatalities of Autumn.  Now I watch them and wonder when will I face that last cold whish of cold winter wind and feel my own fingers relent as I am swept toward the earth? 

There is my partner beside me, being whipped heartlessly against the limb he is attached to.  He looks at me and catches my gaze as I read the desperation in his eyes. 

We have hung here together for so long, an entire lifetime.  We knew our time to leave would come; it just arrived too fast.  I stretch my body across the space between us and somehow hope it will be enough to keep us for another year.  I know it is not enough, but I have to try because I am the care giver.

Why did it take me so long to initiate this role?  Was I blind to my other comrades, my other care giver friends who struggle with their partners to preserve a precious spark of life. I salute and pray for them each day.       

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