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I’m Not Ready Yet

October 7, 2022

Although the vast majority of people who live in Continuing Care Retirement Communities report that they are happy with their decision, there are many who delay a move indefinitely because they feel they are not ready yet.

Of course, moving to The ARC is an important decision. It requires appropriate planning and should not be rushed. Even if your health remains good, delaying means missing out on many of the benefits that could provide for you in the first place.

Here are a few of the most common underlying reasons for not being ready:

“I don’t want to leave my home.” Leaving the home where you have lived for years, if not decades, is not easy. Your own home is a familiar environment and the memories you have built there will forever be cherished. But, these are not necessarily the best reasons to stay in your home. Over time, the idea of staying in the home often proves to be easier in theory than in practice for many older adults and their family members. Sometimes staying in the home means delaying a move later to an assisted living facility or nursing home, at a time when moving to an unfamiliar environment is even more challenging physically, emotionally, and psychologically.

“I’m still independent.” Because The ARC includes assisted living and healthcare services on-site, there is a common misperception that they are long-term care facilities. However, most residents live independently. In fact, many residents at The ARC lead independent and active lifestyles for many years before ever requiring long-term care services. Yet, they also recognize that things can change unexpectedly. They want a plan in place and do not want to be a burden on their children whenever that day comes.

“I do not want to deal with the hassles of moving.” Moving and de-cluttering aren’t easy at any age, but it will only become more difficult as you get older. If this is the main reason for your delay, then it is better to make the move now rather than later. The process of de-cluttering can even be a special time to share with adult children or other family members as you dust off old family keepsakes together.

“I am not yet comfortable with the decision financially.” Many resources are available to help you determine whether it is a viable financial choice for you. A financial planner who is well-versed in CCRC contracts should also be able to help. Finally, The ARC’s website provides a calculator that helps determine if your assets and income are adequate to cover your projected lifetime cost and they will usually share the results with you. Click here to use MoneyGauge

If you are considering The ARC but feel that you are not quite ready to make a move, then it could be helpful to think about what “not ready” means. Addressing the underlying reasons sooner rather than later helps assure that you keep your options open and could spur important conversations about what is ultimately best for your long-term situation. Give us a call and let’s have that talk.

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